•                             मैं

अगर रख सको तो एक निशानी हूँ मैं 

और खो दोगे तो एक कहानी हूँ मैं

रोक ना पाए जिसे जहाँ सारा 

वो एक बूँद आँख का पानी हूँ मैं

धडकते युवा दिलो का अंदाज़ हूँ मैं 

और जो सदा दबंग रहे वो आवाज़ हूँ मैं 

इस अजनबी दुनिया में अकेला ख्वाब हूँ मैं,

मानो या ना मनो  ,लाजवाब हूँ मैं

जो,समझ न सके मुझे, उनके लिए “राज ” हूँ मैं

जो समझ गए उनके लिए खुली किताब हूँ मैं,

यूँ तो मेरे लिए सब एक जैसे है 

पर हर एक के लिए ख़ास हूँ मैं 

गुस्सा जिसे छू नही सकता  वो चट्टान हूँ मैं

अब ज्यादा क्या कहूँ मैंआखिर एक इंसान ही हूँ मैं 

--- Yours      Ishwar  Choudhary 'Prem'

               Who Am I ?

where is she ?

 where is she ?

 one who only made for me;

nobody knows me... 

who cares, no one shows me.

I always think about her;

I put all efforts to have her

Is she doing  ???

the same thing.....

I am a question but

not answered yet,

The world is not good but

my feelings are best....

What i can do ??

  What could i did ???

As i know , as i treat ,

As i thought , as i feel....

still i don't know,

I want to know, but why ??

Exactly who am i ?

Who Am I   ???

Yours

Ishwar Choudhary 'Prem'

3 Powerful Tools To Create The Life You Truly Want

Is your life going the way you want it to?  Do you feel that your life could be better, in any particular area?

I have great news for you!  You are empowered with 3 tools that you might not even realize that you already have!  And the power of these tools, if you practice them the right way every day, is so strong that it’s very likely that you will get what you want in your life.  So be careful, because they’re quite potent.

Tool #1: Affirmations 

What is an affirmation?  It’s a statement that affirms something about yourself.  For example, you might say to yourself, “I am happy.”  This is a positive and affirmative statement about yourself.  And if you keep affirming it, saying “I am happy ”, your subconscious mind will begin to believe that you are, in fact, Happy.

This will focus your attention and energy on your kindness, creating more of it.  As a result, you’ll be more likely to embody your kindness throughout the day.

The most effective way to harness the power of affirmations is to really feel it, believe it, and repeat it.  When you feel the truth of what you’re saying from within you, you will carry the power of what you’re affirming not only in your words and in your head, but also in your heart.  Additionally, if you can bring yourself to really believe in the truth of what you’re saying, it’s effectiveness will increase tenfold.

Tool #2: Visualization   :

 Visualize your Dream.

To visualize is to imagine what you want to happen in the future.  The most powerful and effective way to visualize what you want in life is to imagine it happening very concretely.  Imagine it in great detail, as if it were real.  Imagine what you would see, feel, and hear.

For instance, you can imagine yourself walking into a showroom and buying your dream vehicle.  If you re-play this scenario over and over in your mind in vivid detail, then when you go to actually buy the vehicle, it will be a very easy and natural thing to do.

So why is this so powerful?

Because if you have a fear of public speaking, or you want more friends, or to feel more confident about yourself, or just about anything, you can visualize yourself successfully doing it.  And that will make it much more likely to happen, just the way you play it out in your head.  You’ll have an easier time doing it and creating the real results that you want for yourself.

Tool #3: Diary / Journaling

Journaling can be transformative, if you use it the right way.  Yes, journaling is great for when you want to get something off your Heart, and I encourage you to use it that way too.  But what’s the most powerful way to journal?

Ask yourself directed questions.

For instance, if you’re feeling really bummed out because you didn’t get the job that you want, you can empower yourself to feel better by asking yourself the question, “What are some healthy ways that I can feel better?”  This question will direct you towards a positive outcome of how to feel better.

You can also ask yourself other empowering questions, such as “What can I learn from this experience?” and “What are some reasons I can let go of my attachment to that job I wanted?”  By asking yourself the right questions, you can shift your own thinking.

Create The Life You Truly Want

You now have the 3 most powerful tools to create the life that you really want for yourself.  You already have the power to use them. All you have to do now is practice them.

Yours
Ishwar Choudhary ' Prem'

4 Outstanding Outcomes From Life’s Hard Times

No one enjoys going through hard times – they are anxiety-producing; they are outright depressing; and they can literally “stall” us.

It’s so easy to say, “When life gives you lemons, make lemonade!” Tell that to the person who has lost a job and can’t find another; tell that to the person who has lost a loved one; tell that to the person whose home has just been foreclosed. Making lemonade out of these situations is not easy, and there’s no magic formula that “works” for everyone.

There are, however, certain things that all of us can do during these times that put us on a path of “correction” and point us in the directions of getting better.

1. Hard times can be great motivators if we allow them to be.

I have a very close friend  and my senior who graduated with a M .Tech.. in structural engineering. He was immediately picked up by a large local commercial construction company, and was making lots of money. Then the crash of 2013 hit, his company folded, and he couldn’t find a job anywhere.

He was over for dinner one night, and in a really honest conversation, he admitted that he really had hated structural engineering, even when he was really making good money. He really wanted to be his own boss and liked the idea of real estate, but the market was so bad, it was not even a possibility. As we threw around the possibilities, the flash came. He didn’t have to sell real estate. He could buy it.

He cashed in his 401K, paid the taxes and penalty, and had enough left to buy up 3 foreclosed homes. With a little renovation, he rented all three. From there, he got investors to buy in with him, and today he owns 110 residential properties and has a staff of 6.

2. Hard times can force you to accept help and support that you never thought you would need.

I’d been a loner most of my life. I worked hard, came home, worked some more and went to bed. Weekends were spent with house and yard care. I think all of this came from the old work ethic of my parents and grandparents. I never saw them entertain or laugh a lot.

began a transition that led me to a new understanding – life is so much more than work. Out of that low place emerged a new social and rounded me. My life has a balance it never had before.

3. Hard times can make you look at and appreciate what you do have.

When things are going well, we take so much for granted. During the hard times, however, we can look at our many blessings – health, family, friends, etc. and get a new perspective. When the good times return, we have a new appreciation for our blessings.

4. Hard times can force us to call upon inner strength that we had forgotten we had.

Cancer is a horrible disease, and when a good friend was diagnosed, she spent days vacillating among fear, anger, desperation, and sadness. Ultimately, she got to acceptance, and that moved her to face her treatment plan with a single focus of victory. She beat that disease and now says she can face anything.
Interestingly, when most of us look back upon those “hard times,” we see that, if not for them, we would not be in the better place we are today. So while you may not welcome those low points, see them for what they are – a path for improvement.